10 Relationship Secrets You Must Know.

10 RELATIONSHIP SECRETS YOU MUST KNOW.

A healthy relationship exist when two people develop a connection based on trust, honest, mutual respect and a sense of playfulness. 
1.When looking for lasting love, forget what looks right, forget what you think should be right and forget what your friends, parents or other people think is right and ask yourself: Does the relationship feels right for me?

2.Be sensitive to what your partners like. Only go for spiritual counselling if both of you have a  similar convictions of faults and have a good relationship with your counselor.

3.Do not based your relationships exclusively  on sex. A meaningful and fulfilling relationship depends on more than just good sex.

4.Let romantic relationship be your watchword. Commit to spending quality time together as a partner on a regular basis.

5.Have a relationship with yourself first.If you lack self worth, dignity and value for yourself, you can never be loved.

6.Note this carefully. If your love does such thing as: promises to call you but does not make dates and breaks them, show up late or plays games with your emotions, be watchful, something may be amiss. Make corrections.

7.A fundamental understanding and respect of the male ego is a must for all women who want a vibrant and healthy relationships. Men have their worth and importance and want women to know and recognize this.

8.Whatever problems arises in a relationship, it is important to face them together as a couple.
9.If an aspect of the relationship stops working, do not simply ignore it but address it with your partner. Things change, so respond to them together as they come.

10.Create time out of your schedule to pray together.
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Counselling : How To Choose A Partner.

COUNSELLING : HOW TO CHOOSE A PARTNER.
   There is a kind of joy the unmarried man or woman will never have until he gets married. Some burdens will never removed from the heart of man until he gets married. Some promotion, favor, progress, material things, academic positions and a level of spirituality will not be attained until you get married.
  Many brother and sisters are delaying their blessings because of delay in marriage. He has instituted marriage so that the friction of life and problem of life will be removed. There is nothing anybody can do to disprove what God has instituted. God has made it so. some years ago, an unmarried employee will not be assigned to a very important position in the civil service.

       HOW TO CHOOSE A PARTNER.
It is necessary to consult God with prayer and fasting for god's guidance and directive. Jesus prayed seriously before He chose the twelve apostles(Luke 6:12-13). this is an indication that a Christian must pray fervently before undertaking such life task. Abraham sent his servant to choose a wife for Isaac but the servant pray fervently and waited by the well where women used to fetch water. It indicates that patience is required in choosing a life partner(Genesis 24:11-14). It is better to be patient while looking for a partner.
   You must refrain from foul game that leads many youths to fornication. This is by chosing many girls who will be competing with each other, for there are boys and girls who need future partners by all means. they are ready to give everything during courtship but after marriage everything will be withdrawn.
You must choose a woman or a man you love and know that you can cope or live with till the end of your life. It is wrong to choose blindly. Love is not blind, but the lust of the flesh is totally blind.
Choose rightly.
      PRAYER FOR THE SINGLE AND MARRIED.
Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray that the problem that disgraced my parents in marriage, you will not prosper in my life in the name of Jesus.
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Relationship Counselling : How To Save Your Marriage.

RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING : HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE.

  Do you know that over 85% of marriage that collapse are "Marital situation That Lacks True Love". Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding , mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weakness. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

   The holy bible also tells us the important of true love in marriage. In ( 1 John 4:8 ), it says, "Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. God's love is strong, faithful, true more than enough, everlasting and unconditional. For a Marriage to stands there must be unconditional love at home. 

Love creates, love celebrates, love heals pains, love knows your deepest desire, love never ends and never tires. Love is precious, unconditional and merciful given.

 And finally, love is the reason for living.
                                 Prayer Talk.
Today, in the name of Jesus, your Marriage will receive:

1.Treasure without measure.

2.Pleasure without pressure.

3.Progress without protest.

4.Favor without labour in Jesus name. amen.