Counselling : How To Choose A Partner.

COUNSELLING : HOW TO CHOOSE A PARTNER.
   There is a kind of joy the unmarried man or woman will never have until he gets married. Some burdens will never removed from the heart of man until he gets married. Some promotion, favor, progress, material things, academic positions and a level of spirituality will not be attained until you get married.
  Many brother and sisters are delaying their blessings because of delay in marriage. He has instituted marriage so that the friction of life and problem of life will be removed. There is nothing anybody can do to disprove what God has instituted. God has made it so. some years ago, an unmarried employee will not be assigned to a very important position in the civil service.

       HOW TO CHOOSE A PARTNER.
It is necessary to consult God with prayer and fasting for god's guidance and directive. Jesus prayed seriously before He chose the twelve apostles(Luke 6:12-13). this is an indication that a Christian must pray fervently before undertaking such life task. Abraham sent his servant to choose a wife for Isaac but the servant pray fervently and waited by the well where women used to fetch water. It indicates that patience is required in choosing a life partner(Genesis 24:11-14). It is better to be patient while looking for a partner.
   You must refrain from foul game that leads many youths to fornication. This is by chosing many girls who will be competing with each other, for there are boys and girls who need future partners by all means. they are ready to give everything during courtship but after marriage everything will be withdrawn.
You must choose a woman or a man you love and know that you can cope or live with till the end of your life. It is wrong to choose blindly. Love is not blind, but the lust of the flesh is totally blind.
Choose rightly.
      PRAYER FOR THE SINGLE AND MARRIED.
Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray that the problem that disgraced my parents in marriage, you will not prosper in my life in the name of Jesus.
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3 Mistakes Women Make That Destroy Marriage.

    3 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE THAT DESTROY MARRIAGE.

Marriage is an institution and must be enjoyed. But some women marry as if they are ready for divorce. Everything about your home, love, children, finance and prayer life must be discussed with your spouse. Everything in the home is owned by "Us" and not "Me".

 Two of you come from different backgrounds, training and upbringing. When and where there are differences, as a Christian, resolve it timely. Third parties may not be good except when necessary. Verbal wars, Insults, Quarrels, Abuse, Demeaning statements about your husband and children will lead to divorce. The home is where you have a family and not a "me" alone thing. Your home must be a team and that is why it is called a Family.

Proverbs 5:1 says, "A soft answer turned away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger".
Be at peace with all in your house, toe the path of peace and it will be well with your relationship and Marriage.
But, never go to sleep with a difference.

                                               Prayer For The Single And Married.

Married: Father, in the name of Jesus, I commit my marriage unto your care. Let peace, love and harmony reigns in my home.
Single: I declare that by the blood of Jesus, I cleansed and set aside, chosen for Joyful and blessed relationships. Amen.
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Marriage Talk.

                                MARRIAGE TALK.
Patience is required in choosing a life partner.
Marriage makes a man's life meaningful.
Marriage makes a man's labour meaningful.
What is Marriage?
Counselling: How To Choose A Partner.